Reminder

Life isn't perfect, but it is beautiful.

One thing you want for me

Don't see in black and white.
Stay curious

Once I judge people as wrong,
my interest in understanding their feelings, reasons, and motives is gone.
I'm missing out on a wealth of experience that they have to offer,
and I'm limiting myself from engaging with them in meaningful way

If I want to correct someone by criticizing them,
I'm working against myself.
Empathize and help them meet their needs.
They might come around to solving their problem in a positive way.

One thing I should remember

You wouldn't irritate me unless it's important for me to understand
and you're doing it for my own good,
because you love me.

You're not a careless thinker.
You put a lot of effort into your ideas.
Even if it feels like we're having separate debates about different things,
when I widen my perspective I understand
you have something worth hearing.