Complaining defined

Complaining

n.

1. An act of voicing one's dissatisfaction about something that has finished happening, for no other purpose nor with any intention to do anything about it.

2. Expressing dissatisfaction with oneself, by finding external reasons for your own unhappiness, transferring the blame of your problem to the people and things around you.

Tirade about complaining

"People complain about things when they have an issue with themselves, they are unhappy about something with themselves and then they find external things to complain about. To me, what complaining is, is something already happened, it's done, and then you have to bring it back up and then you say why somebody else or something else was not good enough to you and then you have an issue with that."

"It's people. It's not the thing itself. You can't fix somebody's complaint by giving them what they want. Cuz once they have it, they'll complain about some other shit. Complaining is an issue that you have with yourself, you're not happy about yourself in some way, and then you have to find something external to find an issue about, that you feel you're not being treated as good as you deserve to be by this other thing outside of yourself. When really, the issue is you have some problem about feeling good about yourself."